Sometimes the letters come, sometimes people are willing to consider the situation publicly, they write in ICQ. Some of them do not reach the discussion, get answers to their questions, but in this case, I'm a light loss. Wherefore lay out the story with the words of the participant.
There are Bob and Kate. Katya has a married brother. That's my wife 's brother, and there are always problems. More precisely, communicating with her.
Example:. Bob went on holiday with Kate and her brother and his wife. They removed one apartment at all. All was well until he went to a restaurant. Kate decided to have a cocktail, but went to the ladies room, but in the meantime brought the proverbial glass of drink. Then my wife 's brother, say, Paradise reached into the glass sip. What Bob said in a joking tone, that is not good to drink, without the consent ordered the.
And this is where Bob learned a lot about yourself. What did he shit and ugly two-faced, and in general they ( the family 's brother ) does not like and so much more. Until the end of the vacation paradise Vasya and Katya announced the boycott, while figuring out the relationship with her husband, as if the next one and there was no.
Example 2:. Vasya and Katya come to the parent country house, and there was a brother and Paradise. Paradise, scarcely seeing them, began to yell that Kate - a fool and how they dared to be declared here ( this is what the cottage parents Kathy and her brother). Then Paradise collects and monatki uebyvaet away to neighbors. Of course, again a public showdown between brother and Raya.
Vasya frankly do not care, he would have never met Raya, but Bob supporter of the classical family values. So there were several attempts at reconciliation with Raya. Especially since my brother has a child with Raya three years, who loves to communicate well with his aunt and uncle. In addition, Katia its surety on a mortgage. And never refuse to help. And parents suffer from irreconcilable differences between Raya and his family, and Katie Vasey.
Vasya, I know well and have long. It's a good kind man, who despite his business acumen frankly lost family and personal relationships. He is not so much advice, as a kick in the right direction. And the rest, he himself will cope.
Bob himself says that Heaven is jealous of their strike, and family happiness with Kate. IMHO, Bob is wrong and the problem is in another.
As for me, the agent of influence through which to act - is the brother of Kathy. And he just distanced himself from the showdown. Because there is no progress in improving the situation, as if whoever is trying to. But probably you will have an opinion.
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A separate request to all who sent their stories to the workshop, I accomplish your goal, than all you have finished. At least in a nutshell. I want to make a final post on the results of the discussions.
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
Psychological Workshop - wow- Girl
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